By meredith dillon
Love works in mysterious ways. Sometimes you find the one who youshould truly be with, but somehow you seem to mess it up. You then gothrough life always wondering what might have been, but that’s allyou’ll ever have is what might have bens. Only if you hadn’t been sodamn pig headed things might have just turned out the way you intendedon. Everybody deserves to be happy in life and live life to itsfullest. There should be no reason for anyone to hold you back. Butthere is always those memories of the wonderful things that you go dayto day thinking about, and beating yourself up about.
Just because one was so arrogant and dishonest. If you find the one youtruly do love, don’t let them get away. Don’t let your pride or pastshit get in the way. Take the one you love and never let go, hold ontight and spend the rest of your life happy. Just because one doesn’twant to talk you shouldn’t let that get in the way either. Set downtogether and calmly talk to one another, don’t lose your head. Treatthe other like a person not an object. If something upsets you that theother has done, don’t lock it away inside. Make each other open up andshare with one another. I know that can be hard to do if the otherperson doesn’t want to share, but let them know you are there for themand you are only doing it because that’s how much you love them.Reassure them that they are loved and cared for deeply. Sometimes inlife things happen and most of the time they can’t be explained.Sometimes one feels lonely and needs the touch of the one they love.Sometimes they think way too much and let things that others say get tothem.
But if you love that person you are with then those thingsshouldn’t matter. The only thing that should matter is that you arewith the one you want to be with. There should never be a reason whyyou can not talk to that person, that is the only one you should talkto. And if you are having weird feelings either talk to them about itand let them know what you are feeling or listen to your sister andtalk to her. Don’t screw a good thing up just because you are toostupid to talk about it. In a relationship things can be hard but youhave to work them out and not just think of yourself all the time. Youare not the only one who has needs. Both people deserve to be treatedwith respect and be treated how they should be. One person’s feelingsisn’t the only thing that matters. And if you are too caught up onyourself then you truly do deserve what comes to you. Relationships canbe complicated but that’s part of one. They aren’t easy and no oneshould expect them to be.
You have to work at them and not just give upon it because you don’t want to try. And if you realize how much thatperson really did mean to you after they are already gone, then shit,you never deserved to be with that person. You realize how much theymean to in the beginning, not the end. There are times you will haveyour regrets on what you lost, but honestly if its meant to be it willcome back, just give it time. When you are in a loving relationship,you move forward on that. You don’t dwell in the past, and want tofight all the time. You work on what you have. And when you loseeverything you knew to something stupid, you have to live with that forthe rest of your life. Sure you will move on in time, but it’s thelittle things that make you hold on for so long. So what is love?Everybody has their own views on it.
There is no real answer to love.You fall in love and you just know it. You keep what you got and notthink about everything else you could have. You make a life with thatperson and no one else. Everyone else shouldn’t matter to you anymore.Just the one you are with. You don’t have to talk to other people, youdon’t have to accuse one another for cheating, and you should neverever even think about cheating. If you are with the one you want tospend the rest of your life with, then do it. If you can see a futurewith that person, then you know that they are the one. I know you getmad at one another but that is part of it.
It doesn’t mean that theydon’t love you anymore, it just means you can’t be a bitch and ruineverything. You have to open up your eyes and see what you got in frontof you. Everyone learns a very important lesson with what they mess up.Sometimes you can forgive and forget, but most of the time the damageis done. So the most important lesson I have learned is to keep whatyou got before they walk away.
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