By Monica M. Burns
Ladies.......giving him all the sex in the world, Monday-Sunday, Sun-up to Sun-down, Upside down, and hanging from the Ceiling Fan still won’t make him want you or love you no more than he is willing to.
Most men do not associate sex with love and romance. The only closeness they are getting familiar with at that particular moment, is the feeling of the act between the two of you. Most men will make it known at the beginning of such trysts, but because women associate sex with emotions, you think that you can put the sex on him so good, that he is going to fall head over heels in love with you. Not so, unless he is a Very New Virgin.
If you aren’t stable enough to handle a “sex only” no strings attached relationship, do not agree to enter into this verbal contract. In the beginning, most women will try to act as if sex is all they really want, until they allow their feelings to show and start asking for more. Ladies, it’s your fault that you are in that type of situation in the first place. You can’t really blame the men. You knew from the start, the terms and conditions of the relationship and you should have adhered to the policies or you should have terminated it all together. He’s not obliged to give you anything more.
“Sex only” relationships happen all over the place and all over the world. They aren’t anything new. It’s just that some people aren’t stable enough to handle such a thing. Before anyone decides that “sex only” relationships are what they are interested in, it’s your life, but make sure your mind is functioning properly and your romantic emotions are detached. I know that this is easily said than done, but it’s you who have entered into the relationship and can’t get more of what you want from him.
Use common sense and think about the contract before you agree to the full terms and conditions.
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About The Author - Image Consultant/Fashion Stylist
Monica M. Burns is a Writer, Expert Author, and Image Consultant/Fashion Stylist. She is President and Founder of Fabulous Life Image Consulting. She is also Founding Editor and President of Monica M. Burns Inc. Publications and Fabulous Life Image Online Magazine. She is an Expert in her field with over ten (10) years of experience. She has authored several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is a featured Expert Author and Writer on many websites and in many In-Print and Online Magazines. She has also contributed to several poetic anthologies and won awards for her work.
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