By Rick Valens
Have you ever fallen in love with two different persons at thesame time? Falling in love with two different persons whom bothhave the same feeling for you too? Well, there is actuallynothing wrong with that. In fact I would say that it issomething very normal, sometimes even falling for more than twopersons for some.
We are afterall human beings, creatures of great emotions. It isjust natural for one to develop a liking for the opposite sex,especially when the both are getting along very well. Sometimes,it is just so hard for us to control our feeling andnevertheless, it has always been human nature to be greedy. Itis always good to be able to have the best of both worlds isn’tit? But well, things are usually just not possible. At the endof the day, you just have to make your choice, to decide foryourself, your one and only love whom that person to be.
To love or not to love, it is your choice. Think of it this way.In our path of life, we are always faced with choices. Choicesthat we have to make decisions over; decisions that will affectour life. At circumstances, even having to make immediatedecision on the spot, decisions concerning of life and death.Sometimes we made the right decision and sometimes the wrong.But no matter what our decisions might have brought so far; weaccepted them, didn’t we?
That is life. There is not way the world is going to stop movingjust for you. To turn left or to turn right, to move forward orto turn back, you just have to make up your mind. I shouldbelieve that you will not choose to be stuck at the crossjunction for your whole life? Well, a game of chances anduncertainties life has nevertheless always been. If you neverplay you can never win. You have just got to make your choice,to decide where to place your bet. You can of course choose togive up, not to risk your bet. You always have your choice. Lifeis just so full of choices, remember? But well, will you laterregret giving up that chance when you have it?
The same goes for love. Between the both, you just got to decidewhom you really like more. Well, having choices is always betterthan not having any at all, right? I should also believe thatyou are not going to give up that chance of even placing yourbet? I know it is going to be hard but do just give yourselfsometime. Follow where your heart goes. Between the both, thereis definitely one whom you will actually like more.
Ok, just picture this scenario; there are this two musicalconcert, both a once in a lifetime concert. Missing it, you willnever get the chance to see it again. You have been dying tocatch the shows all these while. However for such a coincidence,they are been held at the same timing on the same day. Again, Isuppose you will not just give up the chance of catching bothshows altogether? Between the two, you will definitely chooseone right?
Finally, to get to fully enjoy the show, which you had decidedupon, you just got to forget about that disappointment frommissing the other show. But well, more often than not, once youfound yourself in the musical concert, chances are you will betotally captured by that spectacular ambience, enjoying yourselfso much, totally forgotten about any disappointment that youearlier had.
Now where we are discussing about love, it is just the same.Many at times, we just can’t bear to give up on what we alreadyhave, struggling so hard within ourselves. In the end, we mightjollywell end up with nothing at all. In life, we gain some welose some. It’s no use holding on so hard to something, whichyou know will not come out with anything. When you have to giveup, you have to. When you have to choose, you just have to.
Just like choosing between the two musical concerts, followwhere your heart goes. Once you made up your mind, everythingwill just seem so much clearer. Slowly, your path of love willreveal its way for you. Will it lead to happiness for you? Wellagain, we wouldn’t know. But if we never try we will never know.At least, I should believe that you will be much happier than tobe still stuck at the cross junction, lost for direction?
Remember, the world is not going to stop turning just for you.So is with love. The two persons will not just keep waiting foryou. Wishy-washy? You might just end up with nothing at all.
Happiness won’t come passing by twice, cherish it when you haveit.
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Rick Valens
Staff Writer for
Currently also freelance writer for
Monument of Eternal Memory
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